2012 “Moralist” as Fear Label
Today I stumbled upon yet another fear label in a facebook group about classical music. Someone had posted images of supposedly “funny” album covers from past times. I noticed that the majority of them were quite explicitly sexist in nature and obviously designed by men, for men. One cover featured a nude woman with a cat in her lap with the text “My pussy belongs to daddy”. And some of them were more “subtle” like the cover of a female flutist with the pornographic text “My lips are for blowing”. Obviously the one that posted the images was a man and the laughter chorus that followed was also all male, only interrupted by a woman that dared to question the relevance of the images. Immediately she was attacked and called/labeled a “moralist” and a “moral guardian”. This is one of many labels that serves to instill fear whenever anyone questions the prevailing patterns, as a protection mechanism of the system. Thus, whenever someone attempts to label you – know one thing: they exist within fear of loss. The one that labeled the woman as a “moral guardian” was in fact the guardian of an abusive system. Questioning sexism and objectification has got nothing to do with “moralism”, since morality obviously is conditional and fluctuating in relation to ones cultural programming. Sexism is simply unacceptable because it’s not in line with an Equal, Best for All Life here on earth.
Many of the men that seemingly laughed might actually not have found the images funny at all, but laughed just because of fear of being labeled as “moralist”/”moral guardian”/”prude”/”politically correct”. I sure didn’t laugh, because since walking the Desteni I Process I have developed the courage to not stand for abuse without being directed by the fear of being crucified. If you also want to develop the courage to stand regardless of the system guardians to create a world free from sexism and fear labels and all kinds of abuse and separation, investigate Desteni I Process and Equalmoney.org and walk yourself into a trustworthy human being that stands for and honors All Life as Equal.
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Thanks for standing up and speaking about this Niklas. I found it particularly humiliating as a child as i felt more helpless/imprisoned then perhaps. It is very clear, even today, if one speaks up as a woman you are immediately hated by some and called prude and some guys who speak up are labelled ‘wimps’.
Cool blog Niklas. Yes it is definitely so. It is very convenient to babble about the 1. amendment and free-choice and moralism, when justifying points of abuse. As though the free-speech of some is more important than the abuse of others. Not so. This is a typical argument in the porn vs. anti-porn debate, that people who are opposing porn are seen as “ridgid” and defending an “old system” and that porn is seen as emancipating and freeing ourselves sexually. That is total bullshit, as one can see from watching a porn movie. It is the same moves and faces and bodies pumping up and down. Real sexual revolution would be to stop porn and realize ourselves as the physical here, in equality. Then we can start having real fun. lol
Great for standing up to this, Niklas